Real Respite Foster Care Stories.

Respite fostering is a special kind of care that offers children a safe, loving place to stay for short periods — often over weekends or school holidays. It gives their full-time foster carers a chance to rest and recharge, while the children enjoy a change of scenery, new experiences, and the comfort of another caring adult.

"Becoming a respite carer and looking after children for short breaks wasn’t something I expected to feel so deeply about — but it’s turned out to be a chance to make a difference, and to be part of their story. There’s joy in the little moments, warmth in the connections, and a quiet pride in being someone they can feel safe with.

We have the most wonderful days together — filled with laughter, adventure, and simple joys. We go on little outings, snuggle up to watch films, and bake cupcakes with far too many sprinkles. They call me their 'holiday,' and honestly, it’s the most beautiful compliment I’ve ever received. It’s not just a break for them — it’s a moment of magic for both of us.”

Offering short breaks to full-time carers isn’t just about giving carers a break.  It gives children a chance to build up a whole team around them of supporting and trusted adults. 

A change of environment can be refreshing and exciting, helping children build resilience and confidence.

Respite carers are matched carefully with the children they offer that short break to.  And they become a regular figure in the child’s life.  Giving them fun activities and maintaining the same routines.

Even within a short time, respite carers can make a lasting impact.

Respite fostering isn’t just rewarding for the children. It is fulfilling for carers as well. It opens the door to meaningful relationships with children and their carers.  A strong support network of fellow foster cares, social workers and professionals who understand the journey and offer guidance, encouragement and friendship.

It allows you to contribute in a way that fits your lifestyle whilst still making a real impact.

You are never alone in fostering. You become part of a wider community, one built on compassion, connection and the shared goal of giving children the best possible care.

“I was asked if I would care for K every month for a weekend.  I was initially worried that she wouldn’t want to stay with me, that she would miss her foster carer, or that she would feel in some way that I was a punishment.  She was only 7 and must have been so confused.  I was given lots of information about her before I met her, and knew what she liked and disliked, what her routine was.  Her foster carer brought her to our home before the first weekend, so she could see the bedroom she would have for the weekend, and I could ask her what she wanted for dinner or any activities she liked doing. That first weekend was very much a chance for us to get to know each other.  But I have never looked back.  I don’t know why I was so worried!  I really look forward to our weekends, and I hope she does too! 
We go horse-riding together, and she loves to play chess.  I have become really good friends with her foster carer, and we both want the absolute best for her, and I feel like I am her extended family.”

Interested in becoming a respite carer?
We would love to hear from you.  Whether you are retired, working part time or simply have room in your heart and home, respite fostering could be the perfect way to make a difference. We're here when you're ready to have a conversation.